Swinging Suggestions

Stay together as much as you feel you need to. Do not hold onto one another like your life depended on it, or act clingy, as this may make it more difficult for other couples to approach you.

As time goes on at the party there may be general disrobing. Only go as far as you want to and feel comfortable with. You may be accepted if you chose to remain fully clothed, although it is recommended that you try to include your self as much as possible. Changing into something more revealing may help others include you and make you feel more involved.

Be honest with each other about your emotions. If you feel jealous of your partner or have any other uncomfortable feelings, then tell your partner. If you do not come clean now, it will come out later and be much more awkward and damaging.

Do not worry about asking your hosts or other guests questions, swingers are generally interested in meeting new people, and may help explain the lifestyle as much as possible.

If there is a hot tub or spa for instance, try to use it, being nude, close to other people with a valid reason may help you make new friends.

Try as hard as you may to leave your inhibitions at home, both sexual and social. These may interfere with your swinging pleasure, you can't expect to get much out of a swinger party if you're not prepared to participate.

Do not pretend to be someone else. Be friendly and good-natured. A warm smile has a positive effect on everybody.